THE ROLE OF THE CONJUGAL PSYCHOTHERAPY IN MALE SEXUAL DYSFUNCTION TREATMENT

Abstract

The concept of sexuality encloses much more than the bare penetration penis-vagina. It encloses all that is before, during and after the sexual act properly said. The not-verbal, creativity, pleasure, the "climates", expressions, affection... When we deal with the masculine sexual dysfunctions, we tend to role as resource of magnifying of the sexuality experience. The clinical progress concept also tends to be reviewed. The treatment of the sexual dysfunctions can get a more efficient and lasting result if boarded in the tripod that supports it. The treatment of physical limitation identified can be made difficult or facilitated by the relation with partner. This interpersonal relation can serve as support or as depreciation, for example. A conflictive couple dynamics may not be able to support the presence of a partial limitation of the sexuality and not to be able to reconstruct it. The understanding of the dynamics of how emotions in the couple processes, can instrumentalize an interesting resource in treatment. Identifying the interpersonal hierarchical fights, borders, flexibility or rigidity, standards of communication, relation with the origin families, beliefs, papers distributions etc. must embassy this comprehension. It is essential that couples develop an "excellent distance", or even better, an "excellent proximity ". That is, in order to sexuality take place, are necessary two individuals. That means, none of them must live the life of the other. Inevitably, we will get in shock with the internal conflicts of each one of the partners. Internal conflicts could not be neglected. For many men, only through a situation where its sexuality is affected, that the search for therapeutic help is admitted. Deeply fragility and expectations to the specialists words, makes men reflect and change. Openness that allows that couple exchanges distrusts, fears, frustrations that, perhaps in no other situation, would exchange. The use sexual therapy techniques in parallel to the conjugal therapy techniques works very well meetings together.