THE DAY I CONQUERED MY ANALYST
DOI:
https://doi.org/10.35919/rbsh.v16i2.455Keywords:
Humour, erotism, psychoanalysisAbstract
The humor is erotic, since it opens doors, hearts and legs. Many women and men use their good humor to open the other's heart through a joke or a spiritual saying. The smile is already a form of opening due to the body relaxing and pleasure produced. The humor is the capacity of creation of a symbolic optic that makes one to laugh of himself, or of the other, generating pleasure where pain could be produced. That is why it is a pain relief and a facilitator of the erotism since it relieves the difficulties and daily suffering. The humor rescues the joy of life, which is a child characteristic that always try to play, to fancy and to live with emotion. When we all grow and become adults, a good part of our imagination capacity, the motor of erotism, decreases. Since we loose the freedom of creation boredom grows. To enjoy life we need to have sense of humor, being necessary to put off the strength of the dead pulsion, and therefore to be less mazoquist. The sufferer values very much the pain and its painful heroism. The challenge is not to complain since this everyone makes in their lives, the difficult is to have joy in spite of frustrations.